One of the common sexual problems among couples is premature ejaculation. It can be found in ordinary couples. These problems can greatly affect the relationship. Wouldn’t it be better if we knew how premature ejaculation affects our partner and knew the ways to solve or delay premature ejaculation, as well as the factors that cause premature ejaculation?
Negative Effects of Premature Ejaculation on Partners
How many minutes count as premature ejaculation? If it happens within 1 minute from penetration to ejaculation, it is considered premature ejaculation.
So, how many minutes does it normally take to be considered normal ejaculation? On average, men ejaculate in about 5.4 minutes, but women usually need 10–20 minutes to reach orgasm. This mismatched timing
can affect many couples, both emotionally and in their relationship. Let’s look at the possible negative effects of premature ejaculation.
- For men, it may cause loss of self-confidence and feelings of inadequacy for not being able to delay ejaculation, and feeling bad that their partner does not reach orgasm.
- For women, it may cause irritation, discomfort, dissatisfaction with their partner, and possibly feeling that the man is selfish.
Why Does Premature Ejaculation Occur?
The factors causing premature ejaculation can be divided into two types:
Physical
- Increasing age can lead to faster premature ejaculation.
- Sensitivity of the penis; some people with high sensitivity may experience premature ejaculation.
- Underlying diseases such as diabetes and thyroid disorders.
- Weak pelvic floor muscles.
Psychological
- Caused by anxiety and stress; previous experiences of premature ejaculation can cause worry and lead to repeated premature ejaculation.
- Bad past experiences.
How to Delay Ejaculation
- Use condoms containing anesthetic, but regular condoms cannot reduce premature ejaculation.
- Use topical anesthetics; however, if the anesthetic touches the vagina, it may numb the woman’s vagina and reduce sensation.
- Use oral medication; this type of medication should be consulted with a doctor and not self-purchased.
- Sex positions; the suitable position to delay ejaculation is the “Women on top” position, where the woman is on top and controls the rhythm. This not only helps delay ejaculation but also increases sexual arousal for the woman.
- Foreplay before intercourse; take your time and follow the steps slowly to help delay ejaculation.
- Stop-Pause Method; when feeling close to ejaculation, stop and then continue. Repeating this can help delay ejaculation.
Surgical Treatment for Premature Ejaculation
Many people may wonder if these are the only ways to delay ejaculation. Besides topical and oral medication, there is another method: surgery.
This surgery involves cutting nerves in the male genital area to address premature ejaculation. The surgery can increase the time to match that of a normal person and can increase the patient’s original time by 5 times, restoring ejaculation to a normal duration.
Summary of the Impact of Premature Ejaculation on Couples
The impact on couples is that one partner does not reach satisfaction, which may cause irritability, frustration, and potentially affect the relationship in the long term. But don’t worry.
We can treat premature ejaculation with surgery. Dr. Beer Clinic offers surgery to treat premature ejaculation. If you want to know how the surgery is done, you can check it out at Premature ejaculation. Don’t worry about premature ejaculation; there are many ways to fix it. But if you want immediate treatment, you can contact and inquire about premature ejaculation surgery at Line.
